Sex Sells In Network Marketing

I wasn’t going to rant about the new trend in Network Marketing that has been getting under my skin a bit over the past year, I had conflicting thoughts on the subject, so I figured I would just keep them to myself, but I saw something recently that made it impossible for me to keep my mouth shut.

The new trend is the beautiful young marketers who have realized that video is fun and profitable, especially when you look like they do and plaster yourself all over the Social Networks.

I didn’t really have an issue with this, it’s not their fault they look the way they do and video is now the popular marketing format, so they are just being smart in getting the attention of prospects. Not to be one sided, I’ve seen guys do it too, only with them it’s more like, look at us, we’re young, cool and rich, wouldn’t you like to be too? Yes of course, sign me up.

So, thanks to video marketing, we are seeing exactly what we see on our TVs, young and beautiful, successful and having fun, selling whatever they are selling that is going to allow you to be just like them.

No problem right? I shouldn’t be saying anything about it, it’s marketing, it works, it’s not nearly as bad as the hype and misleading information that this industry is well known for, which is exactly why I haven’t said anything about it until I saw this ad on Facebook;

—————-
Yes, I Want A Rich Boy

(Insert Picture of Hot Girl Here)

Make money on the internet right now. I can show you how to fill up your
bank account. No boss, No 40 hour job and hot girls like me!
—————–

Really? You have got to be kidding me.

Not only do I have to compete with the best marketers online, people spending massive amounts of money on advertising, slick, beautifully designed systems, teams, groups, hype, people that will say anything to get a sign up, Name brands, etc. etc. etc. but now I have to compete with the hottie selling sex.

Oh, yes she did.

“Yes, I want a rich boy” means that if you get rich you may have a shot with her and that last line doesn’t even really make sense,
but it implies that you will be able to hang out with hot girls like her if you get involved in the industry, with her at least.

Is this really where we have gone with our Network Marketing businesses?

To top it off, this is not a desperate person, this isn’t a fake person, not someone pretending to be a beautiful young lady, this is a real marketer who is well known and is supposedly very successful. I’m not going to name her and I don’t know her personally, but over the past year or so she has gotten very popular and has been hanging around with some of the Guru guys.

My problem is not just the “sex sells” aspect of the ad, although I think this is going to effect the way some of the others market, who as I said, love to show off on video but have kept it very “G” rated so far, although I find it amusing that they do jump in front of the camera everytime they have the slightest little thing to share. Hey, whatever works right.

What I’m really bitching about is this:

I can’t compete with this. If you are a better marketer than me, if you have more money to spend than me, if you are just plain out right smarter than me, I can learn, I can make more money, I can spend more time, I can work harder, I can find other ways, but I cannot be a hot 20something woman, so yes, I’m straight up complaining.

I’m totally annoyed and am ready to photo shop some pictures of myself, start working out, dress myself up or leave off the shirt if I can get myself nice and buff and start putting up ads saying that I’m looking for women that want to hang out with me to join my business, I’m sure my wife would love that and my kids, well, who cares what they think, nothing wrong with pretending to whore myself out, it’s all about sign ups right.

Even better, I can call up my 30 year old swimsuit model sister and ask her if she wants to join the party, since this is where we are headed, she wouldn’t have to do much of anything, just look hot on video and read off what I write, sign ups will be rolling in and my job title just changed to PIMP.

How nice.

Another reason and this effects all of us, not just me, you can’t do what they do either.

If you join with them, you can’t do what they do, they can’t teach you anything because all of their success is based on video marketing, social networking and looking the way they do.

You can video market, but it won’t work as well and you may look like them, but that doesn’t mean you are going to be comfortable jumping in front of the camera 4 times a week to show off.

You certainly may not be willing to place ads like the one above on Facebook.

These young ladies like to teach social network marketing along with video marketing, good stuff to learn, however, once again, social networks favor them, let’s be honest, it’s going to take a 40 year old man a really long time to get 5000 friends on Facebook, a 25 year old hot red head can do it in a few months and it only takes that long because Facebook will red flag your ass if you are collecting friends like you’re Megan Fox.

Someone that’s not even interesting in Network Marketing, never had any intention of starting a home business, would be enticed by one of these marketers, sign up, make no money at all, cry about it and become just another casualty, trashing the industry to everyone they know. People join this business for all the wrong reasons all of the time, but I can’t think of a worse reason than how hot your sponsor is or the implication that you may get a girlfriend out of it.

Someone that is involved in the industry, but doesn’t have that much experience and is sponsor shopping, could also be taken in by one of the new wave of marketing beauties, but again, what does that do for them? How does that help them? Unless you are holding out for some spillover, signing up with her didn’t help you at all.

Now, I will say, I am all for using your talents, skills, attributes, money, intelligence, good looks, whatever benefits you may have to help you become successful in life, however, in this case, what they are doing is equal to me promising you $90,000 in 90 days, money for nothing, just sign up and get paid and all of those other misleading tactics that are used in this industry. It is the same, you may not agree, but when you are promising “Hot Girls Like Me” in your ad, what’s the difference?

I completely understand that everyone will not agree with me on this subject and I am positive those women could care less what I think, they shouldn’t, just as I don’t care what anyone thinks about this post, you can agree or not, they can be offended or not, I’m still right and this is a bad direction for our industry, if anyone actually cares about the industry as a whole anymore, if anyone cares about the people in the industry anymore, but maybe the Internet has finally destroyed it completely, it’s been doing that for years, this could just be the way it is now, money, sex, power, just like everything else in life, shouldn’t be surprising, but it does make me a little sad.

Time to go exercise!

Jim Vigilante

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What’s Best For You?

I think we all miss something when marketing business opportunities and that is the important fact that everything is not for everybody.

You may feel, actually, you should feel that your business opportunity is the best one available, that’s why you got involved, but what is never said is that your business opportunity isn’t really the best one available, it’s the best one available for you.

Every product cannot be the best, every compensation plan cannot be the best, every company can not be the best. None of them are the best business opportunity overall.

I’m not talking about Add-Ons, businesses that we add on to our primary business, normally offering marketing services, like APSense for example, I’m talking about that one company that you just love, the one that is going to make you wealthy, the one you just can’t understand why everyone doesn’t see what you see, that it is without a doubt the best opportunity on the planet and everyone should be joining right now.

One unfortunate aspect of marketing business opportunities online is that people jump from one to another, they don’t really care what the company is all about, they don’t care about the product and don’t really even care to understand the compensation plan, someone said it was the best, they signed up, if they don’t make any money in a very short period of time they are off to the next “best” opportunity. They have no reason to stay since they had no real reason to sign up to begin with, they just did because someone told them to.

That makes no sense at all in the real world of business, but I’m no hypocrite, I’ve done it, I’ve been through phases over the past 11 years where I have jumped around like a newbie with a gold card.

What I failed to realize then and what many of us still fail to realize when we are marketing or when we are being marketed to is that no business is for everyone.

A compensation plan that’s great for you may not appeal to me, a product that you think is incredible and amazing may just bore me to death and there are many other aspects to any business opportunity that may or may not appeal to someone.

It is your job as a marketer to make me see things your way, same with any commercial on TV or any salesperson, however, what people seem to forget is that they need to convince me why it’s a great opportunity for me, not why it’s a great opportunity to them. The trick is to find out what’s important to me, this was easier when Network Marketing was done offline, but with social networking so popular now, we are getting back a little bit of the personal touch that was lost when the Internet came along.

I’ve made this mistake, rambled on and on about a compensation plan that I knew was a real winner to someone who had no interest at all in compensation plans, I still don’t get that but that doesn’t matter, what matters is what’s important to your prospect.

This all comes down to what I was saying at the beginning, your opportunity is right for you, mine is right for me, none are right for everyone. When marketing, explain why you feel your opportunity is so wonderful, market to those that are already interested in your opportunity or at least your type of product, market to those in the competition or those checking out the competition. Always keeping in mind that if I hate matrix plans, you aren’t going to sign me up into your company that uses a matrix plan no matter what you say and it’s ok, it doesn’t mean anything except your business is not right for me.

Even more important than the marketer side, is the side of the person being marketed to, if you are in the market for a business, you really should know what fits you best. What type of payplan works best for you, what price point are you comfortable paying and promoting, what product gets you excited, do you like start-ups or established companies and do you feel passionate about the business opportunity overall, if you don’t, if you are thinking about signing up because someone promised you riches overnight, spillover, money for nothing, a cure for every illness known to man, then you should stop yourself and say, “is this right for me?”.

If you don’t do that, then you are just chasing money and you will always be chasing money because you will never find the business that fits you best because you simply don’t know or don’t care what business that is.

If you are thinking, “I don’t really care, I just want to make money”, I can tell you from experience that unless you get really lucky, you better start caring or you never will make the kind of money you have in mind.

Learn compensation plans.

Learn the product categories for our industry.

Decide what price point is comfortable for you to get started.

Decide what price point is comfortable for you on a monthly basis, if at all.

Decide on if you want to get involved in a start up or an established company.

Decide if you want to focus on marketing tools and services (add-on businesses) or if you want to focus on one primary company.

Understand how you will need to market a particular company, I turned down a very well know, successful company that had a lot to offer, great products and compensation along with a solid track record because I realized that I would have to market it offline to be successful and that just wasn’t for me. They were teaching home parties and stuff, it was like being stuck in 1995, but that works for them, it would not have worked for me.

So, what is your skill? Phone? Writing? Face to Face? Videos? Social Networks? It will take you some time to know your skill, but once you do, you will then be able to see if the way you market best fits with the way the company you are checking out needs to be marketed.

Taking your business to another level, taking it seriously, means finding the business that’s best for you, not the one that’s the hottest of the month, not the one everyone has jumped on this week, not the one that leader is pushing or your buddy just got into, the one that is best for you, because at the end of the day, that’s all that matters.

Wishing You Amazing Success,
Jim Vigilante

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Jim Vigilante & Aaachoo

I am not involved with Aaachoo. I am not one of the owners, I am not a member, I have no involvement. It has become obvious that people think I am involved in the ownership of Aaachoo, I’m guessing it’s because the owner of Aaachoo is the company that owned Wowzza, which I created and managed but did not actually own. I was out of Wowzza in Feb. 2009. I am not sure when it closed, if it has even closed, but I have no involvement with Wowzza either anymore.

So, this is really just a public service announcement and to save myself time on questions about Aaachoo.

Looking Forward,
Jim Vigilante

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This is a nice little deal. Sign up free to get discounts, special offers and coupons to your cell phone, plus, get paid each time an advertiser sends you a message.

They share Ad dollars with you. You can also get paid when someone you refer gets messages.

If you refer a business, you can make some big money.

Your cell number is kept private, you do not need to be a Networker to benefit from this, it’s for anyone.

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Stop Selling! Really?

I’ve had it. I just watched a video that was the last straw.

I’m sick and tired of it.

Here comes the rant.

How many people do you think will tell us to Stop Selling this month.

I just watched one more video, created by some chick with a couple of years experience, who thanks to creating god knows how many videos of herself sitting in her home office and rambling off reruns of other marketers content thinks she’s a Guru, telling me that I need to stop selling while using Social Media.

Hmmmmm.

Don’t sell on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn and the others, plus, I guess that also means I should not use social bookmarking sites like Delicious and StumbleUpon to promote my web site or blog.

It’s not just her of course, I’ve been hearing this bullshit from many different so called experts for 2 years now. Her little video just hit the last nerve.

Here is what really drives me nuts about this.

1. They will say, it’s called Network Marketing, NETWORKING is the key.

Well, I’m here to say that MARKETING is the key. You want to sign up your friends and family members, go ahead and believe that Networking is the main focus of your network marketing business. It’s called Network Marketing because you are building a Network of distributors/members.

The word Network in Network Marketing does not mean Networking, it means a Network of people and it is referring to the network of people in your orginization, those that are already in the business, not networking as in Social Networking.

Originally called, Multi Level Marketing, the word Network was not even in the original version, but Marketing was.

This isn’t just about Network Marketers though, plenty of other Internet Marketers are spewing out the same garbage.

2. They are pretty much telling you to be a scam artist. To pretend that you have nothing to sell, that you have no motive, just hanging out here, making friends, nothing to buy, nothing to join. I’m here to help you, that’s all.

Really now? That’s a bold face lie and a misleading tactic to get people to think you are actually interested in them and not their credit cards. You may care about people, you may want to help them, you may want them to succeed, but you didn’t create 200 videos and countless blog posts for their benefit, you did it to name brand yourself, to get visitors and subscribers, to get sign ups and sales.

That’s the fact and everyone knows it.

3. This is the proof that they don’t even follow what they say. Look on their blogs and videos, what you will see is the same, Retweet buttons, the same, Share On Facebook, Twitter, MySpace and all the other social networks and social bookmarking sites available, just like you see on this blog but I’m not sitting here telling you not to sell. So, they tell you not to sell
on social media, then they ask you to share their content with all of your social media contacts by clicking on the little buttons that go to all the social media sites.

I’m not sure exactly how someone even does that with a straight face.

What would they say if asked, oh, but my content isn’t selling. No, but the banners and buttons all over your blog are selling, the newsletter you want me to subscribe to will eventually send me messages selling me something. Selling a business opportunity is selling, no different than any other product or service. You are selling.

4. This is the biggest, most annoying, most unbelievable point.

The same people, the exact same people, will then sell you a book, course, membership site or some other product that promises to teach you how to get rich using Twitter, how to create an endless supply of leads using Facebook, how to drive massive amounts of traffic to your site using social bookmarking sites like StumbleUpon and Tumblr.

Basically, they are going to sell you a solution to a made up problem they created.

They are going to show you the correct way to do it, since the way you are doing it is obviously wrong, why is it wrong, because they said so.

That just makes me want to go work at Costco.

How on earth do you do that. How do you create videos and blog posts chastising people for using Social Media to promote their businesses and then have the nerve to sell them a product that teaches them how to do exactly that.

It’s like bizzarro world around here.

Here is my conspiracy theory. There are a bunch of Guru types that got together and said, hey, let’s tell everyone not to sell anything using Social Media, then we will sell all our products, services and opportunities using social media and we will be the only people doing it. HA! Brilliant!

Another point.

Most people can’t sell, you see what they do, it doesn’t work.
Most people, using Facebook for example, will send a friend request, you accept, you immediately get a message from them telling you to check out the greatest business opportunity ever created or the latest get rich on Twitter ebook. That’s not the way to do it, I’m not saying it is, but building a relationship with someone for 6 months just to feel comfortable enough to invite them into your business opportunity isn’t the way to go either.

Creating intelligent, helpful, interesting content and then sharing it with me,
yes, that helps me to remember your name and if you are selling something
that I am looking for at the time, I may buy it or join it.

You should do that too. Obviously doing that helps your business.

You are selling the entire time though. Don’t say you weren’t selling anything because if
that was true, there would not have been anything to buy.

What really works for most people? The name branded, famous, ICONs, don’t count, people join with them or buy from them because of their Name.

What works for most people is the numbers. Plain and simple. The more people that see your product, service or opportunity, the more people that will buy or join.

That’s it. No big cosmic secret.

The reason we use Social Media to promote our businesses is because everyone else is using Social Media. It is the cheapest, easiest way to get your business in front of a billion people. Again, plain and simple.

The reason we create videos is not to be helpful little teachers, it’s because videos come up first in search engine results and they catch and hold a prospects attention better than a web page.

The reason we create blogs is to show everyone that we know what we are talking about and because they are keyword rich, so like videos, they do well in the search engines.

The reason we create webinars is to create momentum and excitement.

We do all of those things to drive traffic, to name brand, generate leads and build a mailing list.

The reason we create mailing lists, ezines or newsletters is so that we have a list of people to SELL STUFF to.

It’s a sales/marketing funnel.

No one is creating videos and blog posts just to help everyone else.

You can create all the content, systems and training you want, that’s just wonderful, but don’t pretend you did it just for my benefit, don’t pretend you aren’t selling anything.

You want me to subscribe to your newsletter, you want me to click on one of the banners or links on your site, you want me to buy or join something.

We are Marketers, Network Marketers, Affiliate Marketers, Internet Marketers and there is nothing to be ashamed about, nothing to hide,
no reason to feel insecure. Sales person is the highest paid profession in the world.

Look up the definition of Marketing on Dictionary.com and you will see this:

“Many people believe that marketing is just about advertising or sales. However, marketing is everything a company does to acquire customers and maintain a relationship with them. Even the small tasks like writing thank-you letters, playing golf with a prospective client, returning calls promptly and meeting with a past client for coffee can be thought of as marketing. The ultimate goal of marketing is to match a company’s products and services to the people who need and want them, thereby ensure profitability.”

I just love that. It makes my point.

We are using Social Networks and Social Bookmarks to market our businesses.

There is nothing wrong with that. It is smart business, perfectly acceptable.

There is something wrong with watching some guy in a Ferrari or some woman on the deck of her beach house telling you not to sell.

Trust me, they didn’t get that Ferrari or beach house by not selling. It’s a gimmick, a magic trick, look I don’t sell anything and I have this amazing house and car. Bullshit, they are selling their little hearts out and doing a really good job of it.

I saw Jerry Jones, the owner of the Dallas Cowboys on Joe Buck Live on HBO and he said something like this,
“I’m not the greatest or smartest sales person in the world, but I know the 3 rules to selling:
Rule #1, ask for the Money.
Rule #2, ask for the Money.
Rule #3, ask for the Money.”

I don’t remember his exact words, maybe it’s on YouTube, but you get his point I’m sure.

So, stop telling me how to run my business and I will sell wherever I like, however I like, to whomever I want and I will be upfront and honest about it, this is my business, I’m proud to be a self employed home business owner, I’m a marketer, I sell business opportunities and other various products and services. That is what I do. What do you do?

That’s it for now, I feel so much better.

Go Sell Something!

Jim Vigilante
Professional Internet MARKETER

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